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Are You Doing Self-Love Right?

Simple 12 Self-Love checklists to maximize your self-love, self-awareness, and self-discovery journey that will bring you more success, self-confidence, and ultimate love and happiness in your life.


12 Self-Love Check Lists for you
12 Self-Love Check Lists for you

Discovering the power of self-love is a fundamental step toward unlocking your true potential. By embracing self-love, you create a solid foundation for personal growth and self-awareness. It's about accepting, appreciating yourself, flaws and all, and acknowledging the unique qualities that make you who you are. This self-compassion allows you to explore your inner thoughts, emotions, and actions with a clear and objective mindset.


One of the biggest misconceptions about self-love is that it is selfish. People often think that when you love yourself, you only care about yourself and that you are only interested in your own well-being. That is not true. Self-love is not selfish. In fact, self-love can be the key to loving others. When you love and respect yourself, you are more likely to treat others with love and respect as well. Self-love is not about being self-absorbed; it is about being self-aware.


Another common misconception about self-love is that it is easy. People often think that it is easy to love yourself and that it should come naturally. Self-love, like any other form of love, takes time and effort. Self-love is a journey, and it can be a difficult one at times. It requires facing your fears, your past emotions and old beliefs, your doubts, and your insecurities. It requires acknowledging your flaws and accepting them. Without self-love, the journey toward self-awareness can be clouded by self-judgment and insecurity, preventing you from fully embracing personal growth. It's time to connect with your authentic self and embark on a transformative journey toward self-acceptance and fulfillment.


Here are 12 easy-to-follow checklists to enhance the power of self-love and self-awareness that can help your goals and dreams to come true faster in your life without costing you a penny or leaving your home.


Tip #1 - Prioritize Self-Care; Physical Body


Your body is a micro-universe with the same superintelligence within. Indeed your body is the temple of God and a sophisticated multidimensional vessel for a human life experience journey. Without our bodies, we would not be able to experience complex physical and emotional life experiences. Learn how to communicate with your body, listen to your body, be patient with your body, nurture and nourish your body, move your body regularly, and give the care that your body needs.



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Tip #2 - Prioritize Self-Care; Emotional Body


Discover the profound power of nurturing your emotional body, for it is a sacred bridge connecting the realms of the mind and the physical self. Never underestimate its profound impact on your overall well-being. It's time to prioritize the care and attention your emotional body deserves and unlock the true essence of who you are.




12 Self-Love Check Lists for you


Tip #3 - Prioritize Self-Care; Mental Body (the minds)


Take charge of your mental well-being by embracing the power of self-love. It's time to recognize that your mind sometimes takes over important decisions and everyday tasks according to the subconscious programming you have adopted earlier in your life. The process of connecting and understanding your own mind's program alongside your physical and emotional bodies is indeed healing. Within us lies two core mind systems: the conscious thinking mind and the powerful subconscious mind that operates beyond our control. Discovering effective ways to care for your mind can be a daunting task, but it is absolutely crucial to your self-love, self-healing process.


"The process of connecting and understanding your own mind program alongside your physical and emotional bodies is indeed healing"

Suggestions: Journaling, Hypnotherapy, Rapid Transformational Therapy, Past Life Regression Therapy, Timeline Healing, etc.


Tip #4 - Prioritize Self-Care; Spiritual Body


Here is some good news! Embrace the perfection of your spiritual body, always evolving and eternal. There's no need to "fix" or "improve" it, simply set it free and let it be. As you nurture your physical, emotional, and mental well-being, you'll unlock the true potential of your spiritual journey. Experience profound relief, healing, a sense of connection, and a renewed passion for life.


Tip #5 - Invite Mindfulness Into Your Life


Mindfulness is the state of intentionally and non-judgmentally paying attention to the present moment, and being aware of the presence. Mindfulness involves bringing awareness to one's thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations, and the surrounding environment without getting caught up in judgments, evaluations, or clinging to the past or future.


To me, mindfulness is about cultivating a state of conscious awareness and acceptance of the present moment. It involves observing the thoughts, feelings, and sensations that arise within oneself with an attitude of curiosity, openness, and non-reactivity. Mindfulness allows individuals to anchor their attention in the here and now, fostering a deep sense of presence and clarity.


Practicing mindfulness involves various techniques, such as focusing on the breath, body scan meditation, mindful walking, or engaging in everyday activities with full awareness. By developing mindfulness skills, individuals can enhance their self-awareness, emotional regulation, and overall well-being. It can also help reduce stress, improve concentration, and cultivate a greater sense of compassion towards oneself and others.



12 Self-Love Check Lists for you


Tip #6- Journaling


Start a journaling practice to explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Write freely and without judgment, allowing yourself to express your innermost thoughts and reflections. This practice promotes self-awareness by providing a space for self-reflection and self-discovery. It can also be a valuable tool for identifying patterns, gaining insights, and fostering self-compassion.


Tip #7- Meditation


Meditation helps cultivate self-awareness by allowing you to observe your inner experiences and develop a deeper understanding of your thoughts, feelings, and reactions. Meditation also helps you practice inward inquiries rather than external inquiries.


I've been meditating for 40+ years, and I use meditation as my time to reflect, ask questions, receive answers, and most importantly, create my life as I wish to experience it. To me, meditation with self-hypnosis is the best tool for mindful living. Check out my free self-hypnotic guided meditation podcast, Trance Healing on Spotify, Apple Podcast, or sign up for a free Beginner's Meditation Course on the freebie page.



Tip #8 - Conscious Breathing


The average adult human takes approximately 22,000 breaths a day 99% unconsciously, which is a good thing that we don't have to be attentive or focus on our breaths for 22,000 times every day! But there is a profound beauty in conscious breathing when it's appropriate. Conscious breaths can calm your nervous system almost immediately, they can bring you back to the present and gives you a sense of security that you are here safely.


I have a routine of taking a few deep conscious breaths in my morning meditation and before I go to bed. I also set a random alarm to take some deep conscious breaths during the day. It is free, and I get a million-dollar value out of this practice.



Tip #9 - Forgiveness


Trust me on this one even if you disagree at the moment, but you want to forgive others who wronged you in the past, as well as forgive yourself for not trusting yourself and giving the support, care, and love you needed in the past. Forgiveness is a powerful healing process that allows you to be free from the past events and emotions that held you back for too long. It may not be easy to forgive someone or yourself, but you can. Combining journaling, meditation, emotional release, physical release, and perhaps proper guidance from trusted friends, family members, or a professional for the forgiveness practice can be an incredibly empowering experience.



Tip #10 - Identify Your Emotional Triggers


Emotional triggers are sympathetic nervous system activation buttons or certain situations that cause a strong emotional response, often unconsciously. Some common emotional triggers include criticism, rejection, abandonment, feeling misunderstood, failure, being controlled, or being ignored. Everyone has their unique emotional triggers, and some might not even realize what they are. Therefore, it's essential to be mindful and self-aware of our emotions and the situations that trigger them. By understanding your emotional triggers; what, when, and how, can prevent unnecessary anxiety, depression, or physical manifestation.


Suggestions: Emotion Code, EMDR, Hypnotherapy, Rapid Transformational Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Art Therapy, Inner Child Healing, etc.



12 Self-Love Check Lists


Tip #11- Mirror, Mirror, Mirror, Who is the most important person in my life? Self-Affirmations


The mirror is your inner self, higher self, or soul you may call it. Your inner mirror will always tell you that you're the most important person in your life. You can also create your own self-affirmations that what your inner mirror would tell you about your worth, strengths, and positive qualities. Repeat them to yourself regularly, either silently or out loud, to reinforce self-love and cultivate a positive self-perception. Positive affirmations alone may not change your life, however, they can help challenge self-limiting beliefs while you practice other self-love checklists listed above.


Check here for a personalized self-affirmations audio recording that is created just for you.



Tip #12 - Establish Your Support System


Creating your support system is very important. Surround yourself with supportive and trustworthy individuals who can provide constructive feedback and guidance. Engage in open and honest conversations with these individuals, seeking their perspectives and insights. Their observations can offer valuable perspectives that enhance self-awareness. Additionally, building a supportive network promotes self-love by fostering a sense of belonging and acceptance.



The Take Aways:


When self-love and self-awareness are combined, they create a powerful synergy that fuels personal transformation. Self-love provides the nurturing and acceptance needed to explore and embrace the various aspects of oneself discovered through self-awareness. It allows individuals to approach self-discovery with kindness, patience, and forgiveness, creating a safe space for personal growth and self-improvement. Furthermore, self-awareness deepens self-love by helping individuals identify their needs, set boundaries, and prioritize self-care. Ultimately, this harmonious interplay between self-love and self-awareness empowers individuals to lead more authentic, fulfilling lives and develop a stronger sense of purpose and well-being.


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